Beginning of a new chapter

I believe if you want to do something, you must have to start from somewhere.
So, here I am starting my new blog of my own.

This month we are going to celebrate our fasting month. A new challenge for me to start my life without a maid. I could not believe it at first. Since I was a baby till I got married, the word" maid" will always be there 24 by 7. If I'm not mistaken all my life ,I have been surrounded by 20 maids + 2 of my own haha..Quite a big number..Luckily, my mum never spoilt me .she still insist me doing the basic house work..

Until that awful day in mid June this year that me and mr farrish decided no more maid.The main reason is that we had invested so much but yet the headache that we got is much worst than we could imagine.I really could not understand this maid ..admit miskinlah, nak cari duit,tolong family but when they came here all that became history.

My first one ,ROB was okay during her first year but then after her husband had an affair and left her , she start to flirt around.Because of her terrible mouth too,me and mr farrish had to put up with a lot of un necessary fight .She has been talking bad thing behind our back and the worst was gaduh with all the other maids belonging to my aunty, sister and cousins.

The second one NUR, we got a young girl but this one is very lazy . Can you imagine that my faheem totally dislike her.Finally we got the answer, after one month she ran away . We went to her uncle house that day to fetch her but they told us that she had found another job in a restaurant. There I was standing there, holding back my anger.Luckily, my mother in law was there to calm me down.That week , we were left clueless who is going to take care of our little faheem. Me and Mr farrish had to take turn taking EL to babysit our son.

We did try to ask around but most of the agent said that most of them will only be available after Hari Raya.Yang tinggal pun the rejected ones.My heart really sank. My tears were falling whenever I look into my son face.

Alhamdulilah, Allah finally answered my prayer.It's really true that when Allah gave you dugaan, the best solution is to pray. Most people said masa sujudlah , doa paling mustajab. Makcik Umi, my "mum angkat" recommended to us a good babysitter.The first two weeks were quite challenging but as time goes, I notice Faheem starts to enjoy his new friend (Jiboi) and new family hehe..Now he has a nenek, mummy, abang long, abg ngah and kak adik to entertain him during the day.When I think back, its really true that when something happen to your life, there must be some blessing in disguise.

And here I am, starting my new life balancing my role as a working mother , part time house wife and part time blogger..